Accountable Femininity

Women, open your eyes and look at how the man who peaks your intimate interest does his life.
Look at every way he relates with it, before you ever decide to go home with him…

Because how a man engages with his life, is how he’s going to engage with you. How a man does his life, is how he is going to do you.

A man can attempt to put on an "act of impressiveness" when he first meets you, and he can possibly even hold it together for some time…but very soon, the reality of how he operates in life is going to start leaking at the seams, and you will begin to see who he truly is. Although an evolved woman will feel his incongruence immediately upon meeting.

This is not an attack on men, but rather a calling for him to do his work, so he no longer fears being fully authentic.

I invite women to be profoundly proficient detectors of bullshit. Your health and safety depends on it.
I invite you to grow out of the naivety which society has indulgently impregnated you with. You are powerful beyond belief…once matured.

Examine a man when he steps to you, deeply! Because 6 months down the line when you are broken down and in tears, cursing the day you ever met him…you will have to open your eyes and realise that YOU walked right into it…blindfolded & willing.

I have women coming to me all the time, talking about “he lied to me and treated me like shit”…and I must respect her enough as a grown-ass-woman to say “yeah…and you stayed there!” (underlying patterns of past abuse can fuel this behaviour)

The most hurtful thing I see with how we treat women on this planet, is how we undermine her intelligence and disguise it as “care”. We disguise it as “empowerment”, without ever holding her to the fullest extent of her own responsibility of self. This is TRUE empowerment. Supporting her in total reclamation.

As men, we MUST support a womans RIGHT to question absolutely everything that any man brings to her.

Much love,
Chris