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What Is Bliss?

There is nothing one must do in order to attain bliss...​You are already bliss. ⁣⁣⁣⁣Bliss is already you; when it is allowed to flow unobstructed - When YOU give yourself permission to be here unobstructed.⁣⁣⁣⁣ Bliss, is not about what you can get. ⁣⁣

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Mishandled Womanhood & Ravished Intimacy

I had a male client communicate to me today: “she’s so hard. I want her to be softer. It pisses me off when she is so hard. What do I do? I keep telling her that I need her to be softer and surrendered in her femininity, but nothing is changing.”

You NEED her to be?

Slow up brother!

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A Queen’s Challenge & A King’s Crown

Patience, men.

Patience is a must...

As a man, once you figure out your role with woman, you will realise how so much of it is about utilising your presence in order to assist and support her in regurgitating and untangling from all of the mishandling and abuse that has been placed upon her, before you - Past experiences which have barb-wired her heart and expression. Experiences that have stolen her sovereignty and attacked her nervous system.

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The Divinely Fuckd Woman - Deeper Union

There is a certain type of magic that comes fourth from a divinely fuckd woman. She is obvious and alive in her ever sensitized being - carrying a magic that transforms and embellishes everything she touches upon...including your life.

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The Dangerous-Ass “Nice Guy”

Men, you never wanna just be all about the "fuck"...⁣If you are just bringing the "fuck", she can never soften and fully trust you. Most men who are just in "fuck", generally feel very unsafe to women. She feels his mission. His desire to just DO and take. It lacks the option for connection, exchange, and real intimacy. ⁣⁣

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The Authentic Man: Navigating The Mother-Wound⁣

“It was never intended for a woman to raise a man. She is here to love the child. To nurture the child. To teach him the way of the heart - the way of compassion. But, she cannot raise him to be a man. She is only one half of the whole”

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Repulsive Polarity

You can point a man to his polarity, but if you tell him exactly how to express it - you castrate him...⁣You can point a woman to her polarity, but if you teach her exactly how to express it - you create a manipulative “goddess”.⁣

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Do You Love You?

I would like you to be aware of how you physically touch somebody whom you deeply care for - Someone whom you love...

I want you to really feel how you are with them, how you care, so immensely. How your heart swells for them - This could be towards a lover, partner, parent, friend, or your own child. ⁣Even a pet.⁣⁣⁣

⁣Now, I invite you to become totally conscious of when you last touched and held yourself in this way? ⁣⁣⁣

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Accountable Femininity

Women, open your eyes and look at how the man who peaks your intimate interest does his life. Look at every way he relates with it, before you ever decide to go home with him…

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Beware Of Polarity

All of this “polarity stuff” can be a ripe container for toxic, manipulative & abusive relationship dynamics…

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The Upper Body

In order to sink down and ground into oneself, the upper part of the body must first be released of its repression. Otherwise, below will be uncontactable…

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Male Trauma Part 2

… is a profound initiation which occurs in the man who realizes that he can hold himself in his own trauma, on his own - He comes to discover that he can trust himself in his deepest of deaths.⁣

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Sex Alchemy & Polarity 101

$exual alchemy, in a simple explanation, is the man bringing his blazing fire (yang) to the woman who is water (ying)…

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How To Nourish My Man?

We always hear about what women need in intimacy. How can I show up as a woman to have my man feel more alive?

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